DUDE IS JUST NASTY

The nastiest thing happened to me last week. OMG! I am sure you won’t believe it, hell it took me back a second or two when it happen.

Last week I was in my cubicle minding my own business and listening to my MP3 players, when I smelled one of my co-workers stepped into my cubicle. I usually don’t turn around when I smell nicotine and diet coke because he wreaks of those smells all day everyday, like McDonald in the black communities 365 days a year. Hell I though he was just walking by my cube to get to his.

Anyway, he taps me on the shoulder to talk to me about a project. The entire time I am talking to him, I am staring at the large drop of snot dripping from his left nostril. I turn away because I didn’t want him to see my face, when I turned back around to answer his question. This nasty fool was in the process of wiping the snot ball with his right hand and licking the snot of his fingers like it was chocolate frosting from a cupcake. I immediately GAGGED and asked him to excuse himself. I was absolutely in shock that a 40 year old man would lick his snot like he was a 6 year old on the playground, especially when I have a box of tissue on my desk. OMG!!!!!!

Since that day I have not been able to look at him or talk to him within close proximity.
FOLKS ARE JUST NASTY. EWWW! I am still gagging at the thought of it.

Hey!!!!!!!!! Iam BaCk

I know it’s been a long time since my last post. Things have changed since I started my blogspot. I first started my blogspot as an outlet to get me through a major life transition. At the time, I was living in a new city with no friends or family and in the process of closing a chapter in my love life.

During my hiatus so much became clearer to me, which I must credit my clarity to my relationship with the love in my life. I realized the things I used to stress about shouldn’t have even held that much weight in my life. I have come to two major determinations over the past year:

1. Every single thing that happens happens for a reason and in its own time. So many times we go on these long searches trying to find understanding that we are not supposed to understand at that time or we try to figure out why “good” things are happening all around you except for you.
A few months ago I experienced people changing around me. The people either stopped talking to me or I am getting closer to them. I sat up in my apartment for 2 whole days trying to figure out why those who stop talking to me stopped. I beat my brains out trying to figure out what I did wrong or what I could have done differently to change the outcome of the relationship, when in actuality there was NOTHING that could have been done differently to change the outcome. I spent so much time trying to figure it out; I didn’t take time to focus on the blessing in it all.
Sometimes God remove people, places, and/or things out of your life to make room for the persons he is trying to bless you with. At the time when it was happening I couldn’t see it or understand it, it wasn’t until I starting getting closer to people and other things started to happen that I realized I had to get rid of the old to receive the new.

2. I REFUSE to allow anything or anyone to be the root of my unhappiness. If I am going to be unhappy it will be because I want to be. To many times I allowed people around me to alter my mood and effect my emotions. Yes I still do get upset about some things, however, I vent and let go. I don’t have time holding grudges or long-term anger, because in the process to reach this place I realized that forgiveness is not a gift for other people, it’s a gift for me. Forgiveness gives you place of peace that no one can alter.

I am so excited about my new attitude and my new experiences to share with you all. I feel so much happier in every aspect of life and I look forward to what 2009 has to bring for me.